Epaphras – The prayer wrestler

Its ironic, how many of the significant people in our lives, and in biblical history, are often overlooked and go unnoticed. Epaphras, whose name means “lovely,” was one such character, who played an important role in the lives of many early church believers. Although his name only appears 3 times in the New Testament, and all by the apostle Paul, Epaphras was a Christlike character who had an impact.

Paul indicates that Epaphras was from the city of Colossae. It was he who had introduced the gospel of grace and truth to that city, which lead to the salvation of some, and the initiation of the church (Colossians 1:7; 4:12). While first contact evangelism in any community takes faith and courage, Epaphras continued to prove these two qualities were the pattern of his life.

While we know very little of his life’s circumstances, Epaphras somehow ended up sharing prison time with the apostle Paul in Rome. When Paul wrote his passionate letter to Philemon, who was a leader in the Colossae church, he included a greeting from their brother Epaphras, who was presently a
fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus with him (Philemon 1:23).

Obviously, Paul and Epaphras had spent time talking, providing Paul with the information of the background and condition of the church in Colossae. Paul spoke highly of
Epaphras our beloved fellow servant. He is a faithful minister of Christ on your behalf and has made known to us your love in the Spirit (Colossians 1:7-8). Faithfulness and service to others, and on behalf of others, is a refreshing expression of Christlike humility which is desperately needed in all places by all Christians.

Paul’s exhortation in Galatians 6:9-10 rang true in Epaphras.
Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith. Paul notes that Epaphras worked hard for you and for those in Laodicea and in Hierapolis (Colossians 4:13).

And it was Epaphras’ servant attitude that shone through his prayer life. Paul records that Epaphras is
always struggling (wrestling) on your behalf in his prayers, that you may stand mature and fully assured in all the will of God (Colossians 4:12-13). Prayer is not for the selfish or lazy people. Rather, effective prayer perseveres, investing time and energy, navigating the various issues needing to be discussed with the Lord. It’s communion with God, sharing the deepest thoughts and feelings with the intention of watching for God’s response. At times it’s a labour that can be painful, unpacking the unpleasant realities of living in a sinfully hostile environment. Other times prayer rides on the high waves of joy and praise for the stunning character and works of Yahweh. This was the prayer life of Epaphras.

However, two themes dominated Epaphras’ prayers for his Christian family; (1)
that you may stand mature and, (2) fully assured in all the will of God (Colossians 4:12). Growing towards spiritual maturity, which is Christlike character, is one thing. But to stand long-term maintaining your Christlike character takes unnatural spiritual resolve, and Epaphras new this. Likewise, living a Spirit filled life where you are inwardly assured of God’s will in your life is an incredible manifestation of the Lord’s Jesus. Both these qualities require our best efforts synchronized with the working of the Holy Spirit. Therefore, these are worthy of our prayer attention for both self and others.

May we follow the example of Epaphras, for the glory of Christ and other’s blessing.

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